truepurple wrote: ↑Sat Jul 17, 2021 2:06 am
defaultuser wrote: ↑Sat Jul 17, 2021 1:04 am
truepurple wrote: ↑Tue Jul 13, 2021 7:47 pm
You failed basic reading comprehension, don't worry, you're not the only one.
Just so you know, this is an example of "belligerent and insulting".
Just so you know THIS (quoted) is an example of belligerent and insulting, right here. And all because I said someone didn't understand something I wrote. The irony and hypocrisy is thick with this one.
Your first message may have not been written with an intention of belligerence and insult, but the fact that it has been taken as such should come as a surprise to no one.
And "insulting", if my English is correct, is not conditional on intent, so telling you that your message is insulting is just an objective description.
So in no way defaultuser's advice to you could be said to be "belligerent and insulting".
So your overreacting to it (and adding an insult at the end) not only is unwise and belligerent (and insulting), but it shows that you deny everyone else to have feelings about your attitude, while you allow yourself to react primarily through your feelings at other people's writings.
That sounds fair to you ?
I notice that you do make some efforts in your writings after being told how insufferable your attitude is, but these efforts consist essentially of adding "I'm not a bad guy/you should understand that I'm not a bad guy" in your writings, not in correcting what is insufferable in your attitude.
Oh, and if you wonder how to actually correct your attitude and begin to write in a respectful manner, I believe that Vezzra explained you very calmly and politely the way to achieve that.
And that I explained also (perhaps less calmly and politely) that ahead of the tone change, what could make you a valuable contributor here instead of a permanent annoyance would be reading previous discussions on the topic you're interested in, and understand the constraints that shape the design decisions that exist nowadays, before even beginning to write.
You can propose new and interesting (or new and not interesting, that is to be debated, that's what a "brainstorming" forum is for) ways of tackling these constraints, so once you do your homework and if you can stop thinking that your ideas are obviously better (the discussion in the forum is here to see if they really are), don't hesitate to share your ideas.
But sharing your ideas and insisting on them before doing your homework is more akin to spam/flood than useful contribution, so you'll get reactions according to that fact.
Note that not everybody here is in any obligation to be as forgiving and wise as Geoff and Vezzra, and that you may have already alienated some contributors to the point that bettering a little bit your interventions won't be enough to stop their hostility towards you.